Verbal Abuse in Marriage

Verbal abuse in marriage is difficult to identify and regrettably the most common type of abuse in some marriages. There are a lot of words in this world but not all the words are meant to hurt someone. A person who is good in making verbal abuse can damage your self-esteem while at the same time appears to care for you deeply.

Physical abuse is easy to identify. Once you have been hit without any reasons, you are considered being physically abused. You don’t second guess yourself because the bruises and scars are visible and that abuse has taken place. Physical abuse is superficial. Verbal abuse is different because the pain and the damage are internal. There are no bruises or scars, just a wounded spirit and a damaged self-esteem.

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Being called names by your spouse is one form of a verbal abuse and it is unacceptable if any form of negative names calling is been called. There are names that are obvious and are indicative of abuse. There are covert, veiled attempts to put a spouse down that are harder to identify. Verbal abusers love to use constructive criticism to beat their spouse down. If your spouse is continuously and constantly criticizing you ‘for your own good”, be careful. This is the most deceptive form of verbal abuse. Other abusers are using words to shame. Critical, sarcastic, and mocking words meant to put a spouse down either alone or in front of other people. Yelling, screaming and swearing are common. You are living with someone who goes verbally ballistic over very little cause. Another type of abuse is blaming you for there mistake actions and behaviors and displaces his anger towards you. Abusers also use words that will threaten there spouses.  No threat should be taken lightly, even if your spouse is saying that he is only joking and he did not really mean to threaten you, especially if it causes you to change your behaviors or to feel on guard in the relationship. The persistent and consistent use of threatening words to get you to do something or you act in a way that you find uncomfortable. This type of abuse manipulates your action. This form of verbal abuses takes place in the end of a marriage. If your spouse does not want a divorce, they will say whatever it takes to play on your emotions and feelings, to get you to stay in the marriage. All in attempt to get you to comply with there desires, regardless of what is best for you as an individual.

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Verbal abuses often make you wonder why you feel bad. You hear words of abuse and get hurt and you intend to burry it and continue working so hard at keeping at peace that everyday becomes an emotional chore. You feel depressed and even wondered if you are crazy. Your feelings are rejected as your spouse refuses to discuss issues that may upset you. They avoid any discussion of any topic that they might have to take responsibility for their action and words.

If your spouse who is the closest to habitually, verbally abuses you and rejects your feelings, you will start to see yourself and your needs as unimportant and not taken into consideration. When you finally recognize and come to terms with the idea that you are being verbally abused in your marriage, you need to become focused on getting help.